In the glitzy world of celebrity entanglements, few feuds burn as bright and as fiercely as that between Nicole Murphy and Lisa Raye McCoy. Most recently, the spotlight has reignited over the claim that Murphy once again stole a man from Raye — this time involving a controversial kiss with director Antoine Fuqua. But beyond salacious headlines, the deeper backstory reveals decades of accusation, betrayal, and bitter rivalry. This is the tale behind the drama.

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The Italy Kiss That Sparked the Firestorm

The latest chapter began in July 2019, during the Ischia Global Festival in Italy. Paparazzi caught Nicole Murphy locked in a passionate kiss with Antoine Fuqua, who is married to actress Lela Rochon. The images spread like wildfire across tabloids and social media.

Initially, Murphy attempted to downplay the incident, characterizing it as a friendly greeting between longtime “family friends.” She claimed the kiss was misinterpreted and not intended to be inappropriate In a statement to TMZ, Murphy offered an apology:

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Without going into the entire situation, I want to apologize to my family, and to Lela and the Fuqua family for what transpired. It was not my intention to be in this situation. I do not condone women kissing or interacting in any way inappropriately with a married man.”

But for Lisa Raye, Murphy’s “friendly kiss” defense was the final straw. The actress publicly lashed out, accusing Murphy of disrespect, duplicity, and — most painfully — playing the same role in her own marriage.

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On Instagram and in comments after the scandal broke, Raye wrote:

Gurl @nikimurphy you went after @IamLelaRochon husband too? … SMH So wrong…again!!!”

In her direct confrontations on camera, Raye accused Murphy of damaging homes rather than repairing them:

She messed around with my husband … I don’t know if she’s a home wrecker, but she is wrecking it.”

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Raye also questioned how Murphy could claim ignorance of Fuqua’s marital status:

How does a ‘family kiss’ turn into an ‘I’m sorry’ apology? You didn’t know that she was married? We all knew that she was married! That was 20 years. That’s history.”

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Old Wounds: The Michael Misick Affair

But this scandal was hardly the first time Raye accused Murphy of interfering in her marriage. Dating back to the mid‑2000s, Raye was married to Michael Misick, the former Premier of the Turks and Caicos Islands, from 2006 to 2008.

In interviews, Raye claimed she had “proof” that Murphy had had an affair with Misick while still married. According to Raye, she checked the manifest of a private plane she co-owned with Misick and found Murphy’s name listed as a previous passenger — a trip she said was not authorized.She also claimed a taped incident showed Murphy dropping off Misick at a private airstrip.

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Raye alleged that when confronted, Murphy initially denied the involvement, but later, Misick admitted to “about two or three” encounters with Murphy. Raye said the revelation was heartbreaking, especially given that Murphy had been her friend, attended her wedding, and participated in her bridal party.

In public comments, Raye insisted she had confronted Murphy face to face, accusing her of indirect lying and manipulating statements to downplay the affair. She warned Murphy not to “play on words” anymore:

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I never said that you broke up my marriage… you know, I’m going to let her play on words … she might want to come see me face‑to‑face.”

In response, Murphy has repeatedly denied the allegations, calling them false and unsubstantiated. In one interview on The Wendy Williams Show, she insisted:

It says I broke up someone’s marriage, which is absolutely false. I never did that.”

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Third‑party Support: Da Brat’s “Receipts”

Complicating the narrative is evidence provided by rapper Da Brat, who is also Raye’s sister. On Dish Nation, Da Brat said that Murphy had “receipts” — pictures, texts, emails — that support Raye’s claims. She claimed that Murphy had indeed “shot her shot” at Misick while he was married to Raye.

According to Da Brat, these were not rumors, but documented actions. “Absolutely,” she said, in confirming that Murphy tried to pursue Misick during Raye’s marriage. Da Brat’s statements bolster Raye’s narrative and add friction to Murphy’s denial.

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Public Showdowns and Verbal Barbs

Not content to wage this war only on social media, both women have engaged in public face‑offs. Raye has challenged Murphy to meet her face to face to settle these accusations:

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She might want to come see me face to face… she might see me and tell me that face‑to‑face.”

In one media interaction, Raye confronted a paparazzo and declared her displeasure:

She messed around with my husband … How does a family kiss turn into an ‘I’m sorry’ apology?”

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Meanwhile, Murphy’s public messaging has been a mixture of apology and denial. She apologized for the Fuqua incident but vehemently denied involvement with Misick, lamenting that rumors about her interfering in marriages were untrue.

In one notable turn, Murphy said:

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I don’t condone women kissing or interacting in any way inappropriately with a married man… I would never intentionally undermine another woman.”

But Raye was unimpressed. She retorted that Murphy’s apology did not match the behavior, especially when performed “among friends.”

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Weighing the Evidence: Allegation vs. Proof

Strengths of Raye’s caseRaye’s advantage is in specific claims — the plane manifest, the private-flight allegations, and her assertion that Misick later confessed. The involvement of a third party (Da Brat) claiming to have supporting evidence adds weight to her position. Additionally, Raye’s willingness to call out inconsistencies in Murphy’s statements (e.g. shift from denial to apology) works in her favor.

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Weaknesses and uncertaintiesHowever, no publicly verifiable documents (plane logs, audio recordings, text messages) have been released to the media as verifiable proof. Murphy denies the claims, and in the Fuqua case, the “friendly kiss” defense muddles clear attribution of intent. There is also a possibility of exaggeration or memory distortion over many years.

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Thus, although the counter‑narrative is strong, the absence of independently confirmed evidence keeps the situation in the realm of high‑profile scandal rather than settled fact.

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The Human Cost: Betrayal, Reputation, and Legacy

Beyond the gossip and soundbites, at the heart of this feud lie wounded trust and broken relationships. Raye has said the betrayal felt intensely personal, magnified by the fact that Murphy had once been a friend, a bridesmaid, and confidante. The sting is sharper when one feels a friend has betrayed in private and played a different role in public.

For Murphy, the repeated accusations of being a “homewrecker” and “man‑stealer” have impacted her public image, particularly in black entertainment circles that place high moral expectations on interpersonal conduct. Her critics argue that her defensive posture — switching between denial and apology — undermines credibility.

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Meanwhile, the drama yields entertainment value for tabloids and fans, who devour every nuance, comment, and social media snippet. But these stories represent real emotions, real reputations, and real relationships lacerated by mistrust and rumor.

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What Comes Next?

As of now, both women seem entrenched. Raye continues to insist on her narrative and challenge Murphy to face her claims publicly. Murphy maintains denial and seeks to minimize reputational damage. Neither has transferred to legal channels with public lawsuits (at least not with disclosures) over defamation or evidence disclosure.

If the fight escalates, possible next steps might include:

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Release of evidence: If Raye or Da Brat releases the alleged texts, images, or recordings, the controversy could shift from rumor to validation.

Legal action: Either party might sue for defamation or breach of privacy, forcing a court to evaluate evidence under oath.

Mediation or face‑to‑face: As Raye suggested, meeting in person might either resolve or intensify the conflict.

Public fatigue: Over time, the audience may grow weary and move on to the next controversy, leaving the dispute unresolved in the court of public opinion.

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Conclusion: Did Nicole Truly Humiliate Lisa Raye Again?

The headline —Nicole Murphy HUMILIATES Lisa Raye After Stealing Her Man AGAIN — captures the sensational tone of celebrity gossip, but the truth likely lies somewhere in the murky middle of claim, counterclaim, loyalty, and betrayal.

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Raye’s accusations carry emotional force, bolstered by her consistency over the years and by third‑party endorsement (e.g. Da Brat). Yet the lack of independent, verifiable evidence prevents the matter from being conclusively settled in the public arena. Meanwhile, Murphy’s denials and deflections continue to leave space for doubt — though they also open her to accusations of evasiveness.


What is clear is that for Raye, this is not just gossip — it is a wound and a betrayal. For Murphy, her reputation is on the line. And for the rest of us, we watch a dramatic saga of fame, friendship, and fractured trust play out before the cameras.