Days After Pastor Left His 400 Pounds Wife For His Trans GF, She K!lled Him And Cut Off His P*nis | HO!!!!

KATABA COUNTY, NC — On the morning of February 20, 2012, deputies from the Kataba County Sheriff’s Office responded to a call that would leave even the most seasoned investigators shaken.

The scene they discovered inside a modest rental home on the outskirts of town would soon become the center of one of the most disturbing murder cases in county history—a case marked not just by brutal violence, but by years of humiliation, betrayal, and the slow corrosion of dignity.

The victim was Victor Hensley, 38, a former local pastor whose life had recently taken a dramatic and controversial turn. Hensley’s body was found sprawled on his living room floor, drenched in blood from multiple stab wounds to his chest and torso. But it was the mutilation that caught investigators’ attention: his genitals had been severed, removed with deliberate force, and never recovered. The killing was not only an act of rage, but of symbolic destruction.

A Marriage Erodes Under Control and Ridicule

The story behind Victor Hensley’s murder began long before that violent February night. For years, his marriage to Roxanne Hensley, 34, had been marked by control, humiliation, and a relentless struggle over her weight—a struggle that was both personal and public.

Roxanne’s family history was one of obesity so pronounced it touched every generation. Her own mother died young, weighing nearly 500 pounds, a loss that haunted Roxanne and fueled her determination to break the cycle.

In her late teens and early twenties, Roxanne was known for her discipline and energy, maintaining a slim figure through constant exercise. Her efforts were visible and, for a time, successful. When she met Victor at a Super Bowl party in the late 1990s, she believed she had rewritten her destiny.

Victor, then a seminary student, was ambitious and charismatic. Their relationship moved quickly, and Roxanne’s fitness became part of the image they projected—a young pastor with a strong, attractive wife. But as Victor’s pastoral ambitions grew, so did his need for control. He discouraged Roxanne’s workouts, citing modesty and propriety, and eventually forbade her from going to the gym altogether. Exercise, her shield against heredity, was taken away. Dieting and prayer, Victor insisted, were the only acceptable means of managing her health.

The consequences were immediate. Without her routines, Roxanne’s weight began to climb, especially after the birth of their son, Matthew, in 2004. By the time Matthew was five, Roxanne weighed over 300 pounds; within a few more years, she exceeded 400. Medical advice to resume exercise was ignored—Victor’s word was final. The pastor’s wife, once a figure of pride, became the subject of ridicule in church circles. Parishioners whispered a cruel nickname: “the first lady who filled the earth.”

Victor’s Double Life and Public Humiliation

While Roxanne struggled under the weight of ridicule and declining health, Victor’s life took a very different turn. In 2009, he began a secret relationship with Michelle Liry, a transgender woman living in Charlotte. Their connection, first forged online, quickly deepened into emotional intimacy and, eventually, a public affair.

Victor’s relationship with Michelle was a scandal that shattered the image he had cultivated as a conservative, moral leader. By late 2011, his absences and unexplained expenses raised suspicions among parishioners. The affair was eventually confirmed, and Victor was stripped of his remaining pastoral duties. For Roxanne, the betrayal was both personal and public—her body mocked as the reason for his infidelity, her humiliation compounded by Victor’s choices.

Victor’s bitterness seeped into his behavior online. In early February, he posted a side-by-side comparison on Facebook: one photo of Michelle, smiling and posed; the other of Roxanne, heavier and off-guard. The caption read, “One is a partner, the other is baggage. Don’t yoke yourself to dead weight.” The post spread quickly, reaching friends, acquaintances, and even strangers. For Roxanne, it was the final insult in a chain of humiliations stretching back nearly a decade.

Surveillance and a Plan for Revenge

In the days after Victor’s public mockery, Roxanne’s anger boiled over into action. She began to surveil Victor’s home, parking several houses away and watching his movements. She tracked when Michelle was out, when Victor was alone, and when the house went dark. Witnesses later described Roxanne as “furious, but quieter than ever”—a silence that carried more weight than shouting.

On February 19, Roxanne put her plan into motion. She drove directly to Victor’s home, carrying nothing that suggested violence. She knocked on the door, framing her visit as a discussion about their son’s future. Victor, familiar with her presence, let her inside without suspicion.

What happened next was reconstructed through forensic evidence and Roxanne’s own confession. The two exchanged words in the living room, with Roxanne steering the conversation toward Matthew’s schooling and Victor’s unpaid child support. When Victor walked into the kitchen, Roxanne struck—stabbing him first in the side, then repeatedly in the chest and torso. Forensic analysis counted more than a dozen wounds, consistent with a sustained assault fueled by rage.

Victor collapsed in the living room, leaving a trail of blood from the kitchen doorway to the carpet where he fell. But the attack did not end with the stabbing. In a final act of vengeance, Roxanne severed Victor’s penis and left the house, carrying it with her. She later admitted to discarding it along a rural highway. Despite extensive searches, the missing organ was never recovered.

Investigation, Trial, and Community Response

Deputies arrived the following morning, responding to a neighbor’s call about the front door being ajar and no signs of movement inside. The crime scene was quickly secured, and Roxanne was brought into custody. She confessed within hours, speaking calmly and without hesitation. For detectives, her lack of remorse underscored the depth of anger fueling the crime.

The trial began in late 2012, drawing packed attendance each day. The prosecution laid out the facts: Roxanne had surveilled Victor for days, entered his home under false pretenses, stabbed him multiple times, and mutilated his body. The state argued that her actions showed clear premeditation and demanded the harshest possible punishment.

The defense did not contest the killing but tried to frame it within the context of years of emotional abuse and public humiliation. A psychologist testified about the cumulative effects of shame and isolation, describing Roxanne as a woman whose identity had been eroded until rage boiled over. But the brutality of the crime overshadowed those arguments. The missing organ, never recovered, became the centerpiece of the state’s claim that this killing was not just murder, but an act of desecration.

Reactions in the courtroom mirrored the division in the community. Some viewed Roxanne as a villain, a woman who robbed her son of a father and committed an act so grotesque it could not be excused. Others whispered about Victor’s own faults—the control, the affair, the public humiliation. Even among those who condemned Roxanne, many admitted Victor had provoked her through cruelty. Yet in the eyes of the law, provocation did not justify what she had done.

The verdict was unanimous: guilty of first-degree murder. In January 2013, Roxanne Hensley was sentenced to life imprisonment without the possibility of parole. She showed little emotion as the sentence was read, looking forward rather than at the gallery, as if she had expected the outcome from the start.

The Aftermath

With his father dead and his mother imprisoned, Matthew Hensley, then eight years old, was placed in the care of extended family. Records show he went to live with relatives on Roxanne’s side, away from the immediate shadow of the crime. Judges ordered his identity and school placement to be protected, recognizing the trauma of his situation.

For Kataba County, the Hensley case left scars that lingered long after the sentencing. The brutality of the murder and the missing organ became part of local lore, recounted in hush tones at diners and gas stations. But beyond the gore, the case represented something deeper—the collision of humiliation, vengeance, and domestic fracture. It showed how years of control and ridicule could culminate in a single night of unimaginable violence.

In the end, the story of Victor and Roxanne was less about a failed marriage than about the slow erosion of dignity. A woman once determined to escape her family’s history had been reduced to a figure of ridicule. A man who once preached morality had descended into cruelty and contempt. Between them stood a child left to carry the legacy of both.

The case closed with Roxanne behind bars, Victor buried, and Matthew in protective custody. But for those who followed it closely, the Hensley story blurred the line between victim and offender. Roxanne’s act was unquestionably murder, yet the path to that living room floor—soaked in blood and silence—was paved with years of humiliation that made vengeance, in her mind, inevitable.